Congrats!!! We didn’t use a night nurse but had a nanny/babysitter come during the weekdays which was SO helpful. The big kids were taken care of so I could really rest and be with the baby during the day. In the afternoons I found myself able to spend some time with the big kids while she took care of the baby. It was really nice to have extra hands and I found it easier to be with the baby during that time! I really savored it because it might be our last baby. Good luck!!!!