Oral sex honesty

[bluedolphin]

Ok getting V personal here…my husband loves to go down on me and it is not my favorite and I would like to know if this is the norm or abnormal to not enjoy it that much?? Any tips to help enjoy it more??

[brown horse]

@bluedolphin highly recommend adding some fingers to the experience…

[MotherShip]

This is one of those things where the time, mindset and everything else has to be perfect. It helps for me to be immediately post shower, zero kids around or to be heard and my mind really needs to be shut off/ not wandering at all.

[White Alligator]

like to receive not to give ! My husband is fine w that.

[White Whale]

Meh… not my thing

[astronaut1]

@bluedolphin
To be honest, I used to love it, but after having kids I feel a lil awkward. So, did you used to enjoy it? If so, then you just have to push through the mental issue. If not, make sure he is using a soft tongue against your clitoris on both sides. If he is just trying to shove his tongue in your vagina, then you will get little to no pleasure (or at least that has been my experience).

[Black Zoo]

This is our favorite way to make sure I’m satisfied. He’s focused on the clitoris, uses his fingers in the right places and takes his time so that I can get into the right mindset and not feel pressured.

[Black Parrot]

I have no idea if it’s the norm or not bc it’s never talked about. But it’s my favorite way to make sure I’m enjoying sex equally as much as my husband. Close your eyes and try to breathe and relax. Or maybe it’s just not your thing which is fine too!