Questioning the 4th kid
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wrote on 28 Apr 2024, 20:22 last edited by
Hi!
We have 3 kids, and my husband go back and forth if we should have a 4th. Everyone says 3 is the hardest number on a marriage and sibling dynamic. Would love advice from families with 3 that went for the 4th, and ones that are just 3. We have a mix of genders - girl, and 2 boys, all under 7. Youngest is almost 3.
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wrote on 29 Apr 2024, 01:55 last edited by
Just wanted to say I’m in the same boat! I’ve been hearing that you never regret having the kid, but you may regret not having one… would love to hear from any other mamas of 4!
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wrote on 30 Jul 2024, 13:23 last edited by
In the same boat! 2 boys and a girl, oldest is 6, youngest is 9 months. 3 has been so hard, don't think I could go for 4 but always curious what others say.
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wrote on 31 Jul 2024, 02:16 last edited by
Also always wondering the same thing!! On the days my kids are nuts and fighting...which are most I wonder how we would survive. I also think 4 may even out the team up they have on the odd one out that happens in my family!
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wrote on 31 Jul 2024, 03:49 last edited by
I hear you never regret the kids you have. I'm just so tired and overwhelmed and worn out. Idk how people do it. It sounds fun though!
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wrote on 31 Jul 2024, 21:29 last edited by
It’s beyond exhausting, but SO worth it! I can’t imagine our family without our 4th! Go for it!!!!!
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wrote on 1 Aug 2024, 19:13 last edited by
DO. IT. Short term sacrifice for a lifetime of fun and a full table. I’ve got 4 under 6 and damn it’s hard but also it’s so fun and I can tell it’s going to be awesome in the next 2 years. You won’t regret it!
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wrote on 1 Aug 2024, 20:33 last edited by
In my opinion, no one regrets having another kid
